Blash threat and not ridicule .. 4 phrases Mnafsh say to your child

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"Fear, selfishness and aggression," qualities that mothers may find in their children, and it is difficult for them to deal with this problem, but the mother may be the reason for the formation of the personality of her child because of her actions with him and the way to raise.

According to a website redbookmag There are some words should be avoided by mothers with her child:

You are a manners

Child

Even if your child lies, do not tell him directly that you are a liar, because that will increase the problem and turn into aggression behavior you can not control, but you should approach your child and talk with him and bring him closer to being your friend and not afraid of you.

Child

you are selfish

The constant criticism of the child turns his personality into an aggressive and selfish child and lies all the time. You have to replace these words by explaining to him that his actions are wrong and that he should change himself, and at the same time give him all the psychological support and love.

Blash threat

The threat formula is one of the most important methods that mothers use to deal with their child. They always say to him, "Tell me, I will tell the school with your pleasure." This method reduces the child's self-confidence and increases his hatred for you and the father.

You are not useful and failed

Diagnosing a child with failure can make him a failure and frustrating. Therefore, you should not reprimand your child and always accuse him of failure, but encourage and support him even if he makes a mistake and help him to enhance his self-confidence and deal positively with those around him.